I was sexually abused by my parental grandfather when I was 12 years old, and when I was around 15 by a person who I still do not know. I had my first suicidal thought at that time, but I had a divine intervention.

Both incidents happened while I was sleeping. I broke my silence at different stages of my life. My mother and grandmother silenced me. I waited 13 years to break the silence on the second abuse. I suspected the other abuser to be my father, but he denied it.

I went on a healing journey when my life became unhealthy, and the borderline personality disorder was out of control. It has been a lot of work to gain self-love, and move on. I took a self help path wanting to give my son a better version of me, reconnect with my family, serve God, and help other women heal.

I wrote a book named “From Hate to Love”, to help other survivors of sexual abuse. It was inspired by Perry Power who helped me gain confidence to talk about it, and finalize my healing.