When I began this work in 2018, I invested heavily in producing professionally filmed videos. At that stage, I was experimenting with creative ways of explaining what I was experiencing in my own journey, alongside different ways of approaching and understanding this subject.
You’ll notice that my style, tone, and approach have evolved since then. These videos reflect an earlier stage of my work, but I believe they remain valuable — offering useful content that can support education, training, and further discussion across a range of settings.
Please feel free to use and share these videos in whatever way is most helpful to you.
When I was 8 years old, I thought what was happening to me was “normal.” It wasn’t.
I was groomed and sexually abused at 8-years old | The full story
Here is a 6-minute video where I go into detail about what happened. Notice the frustration and anger as I tell the story.
An award winning film that provides a visual of the grooming process on a child that  you may have never seen before.
Using the Father Christmas story as an analogy is one of my favourite ways to show just how easily led children can be — and how quickly their minds absorb something when it’s delivered by someone they trust.
What has the constant viewing of adult content on young impressionable boys phones done to their view of girls and sex in general?
I made this to open the conversation on the dangers of being young and online. I want this to be educational, maybe something that parents would be happy to show their child and talk to them about. Please share this on your socials to spread the word further.
Do you ever think about inappropriate touch being children on children? Research is showing us that children are picking things up from others, or pornography and acting them out.
John likes school uniforms in his sex life. His wife carries out the role play, acting like a schoolgirl which they both find very exciting. Should this be allowed? Is it complicated? Or is what people do in their sex life be none of our business?
Do you ever think about people who have these thoughts in their head?
You can hear the anger in my voice. I was mad that these night terrors had come to my life.
Would it actually take seeing one, for example, a grown man molesting a 5-year old girl, for the world to put everything on hold until this is stopped?
This is a serious conversation that we must consider if we’re serious about prevention.
We must break the silence on these conversations and raise awareness.
I wanted to share my journey in the hope that it inspires others.
Don’t wait too late to take action in your home
Do you have something to say that makes you feel strong when you say it, or that you think may inspire others, or that you think people need to hear?
We are excited to hear from you.
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